This post is re-published with kind permission from Joanne at Forever Parents.
Tomorrow, June 5th, is my daughter’s 14th birthday, but we won’t be celebrating.
Let me explain….
When we adopted her, she was eight years old (We also adopted her two siblings at the same time). For the first couple of years, the week leading up to her birthday was always a time of turmoil for us. Moodiness, nastiness and sadness would fill her up and hurt anyone in her path, usually us, her family. Some years it was all I could go to even talk to her during that week….one year I threw her cake into the garbage out of total frustration and another year I cancelled her party a few days before.