I Agree. This is an amazing thing that you are choosing to do. Not only will this person be a stranger, but likely will be a stranger who has had a dark bad life until you and your husband come into the light. Be understanding as you enter into this new relationship - because in some ways it will be the most difficult relationship you ever have. You'll be asked to commit before you really have all the information - because the information is revealed as you parent. Once you commit, there is no turning back unless you are willing to hurt an already damaged soul once again.

As you embark, don't allow yourself to feel isolated. Your family and friends will think they know the trials you will bear but they won't really know. Reach out to the fostadopt community and find fellowship and support from others who have done what you are embarking upon.

Finally, WELCOME to a pretty exclusive club.